Romance and Love

By now we’d say that guys are just plain confusing and mysterious themselves and it’s annoying; isn’t it? Trust me, I know. I have been there, bought the ten thousand books and read them, watched all the movies, and got all the t-shirts. I hope with these few secrets you take them and use them, to then learn more secrets about your guy or guys in general that I haven’t blurted out this time.

No Guy Is The Same.
I know that your girlfriends will be there to give an answer to all your questions about that guy that you either have or are crushing on; but here’s the thing- the advice they give you for that guy doesn’t mean that it will work on your guy. Because not one guy is alike, and reacts alike to the “techniques” that they will give you to do.

Instead of always following the same old teen advice, take the time to find out about the guy you have or have your eyes on. Chances are if you take the time, you will learn a lot about him, and it’ll be a lot more than you thought you would learn.

Guys are allergic to the Silly Stuff.
I know us girls get excited and stuff when we see a cute guy (or guys). But let me tell you being silly, loud and over-excited can drive them away just as soon as when you first seen them. You see, in a guys’ mind that registers as immature and they aren’t wanting that. Plus it can get kind of annoying -hearing the high pitched giggles and conversations. Trust – trust – trust me, if you act like yourself without all the high pitched stuff, a guy will want to walk over to you and start asking questions.

They Love a Real Girl.
Ever talk to a guy and say that you liked this and that just because you wanted him to like you? It won’t work out in the long run. Guy’s like that girl that is so confident that she doesn’t need to become someone else for them, but is herself. Who doesn’t like and dislike things just for them. That’s kind of buying a plastic doll and programming in it what to say. That’s no fun! So here’s this, being honest, confident, and yourself can make a guy want to talk to you and ask you out more; and then if you exercise the “interests” rule it’ll work even more. Here’s that rule: Does your guy like to play football, play video games, or stuff that you’re not really interested in? Ask him to teach you how to do those things. I did that with my guy and he got excited because I was going to do something that he did and loved to do. It gives you time together and you also get to make memories.

The best dating advice to remember is to always play it cool. Keep casual and don’t ever be a nervous wreck. The more you think about and worry about what guys will think of you – just be yourself and act natural. Act in a way that you would want someone to act around you.

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